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March, 2007 *雨蝶*
March, 2007 *心情*浑浑噩噩的一天，突然就会觉得什么也不是， 原来什么都不是，嫌吗？不知道，闷吗？不懂，想法不像从前，感觉不如以前，心痛痛？一点吧，痛过了就不觉得很心疼了，对不？似乎不管怎么做，都不对似的，原以为这么做，方法对了，可我错了，然换另一个方法，似乎也是错误的，我的问题吧，就当是我的问题，很伤人？会吗？我已经不懂了哦，给了一次又一次的机会，原谅了一次又一次，似乎反而造成了更多的伤害？
现在的心情是什么？不开心但是不是难过，不想笑但是也不想哭，大概是你变了，而我也变了，太在乎一个人不是我的性格，只在乎一个人我做不到吧，但是现在我似乎在做着，我不想做到，一根草放弃整座森林？我没那么伟大，曾经我是那么做，可似乎也失去了，现在，再犯同样的错误吗？我做不到，我也不准自己在犯同样的错误，一夜间，我想了很多，也许也刚好因为你的话，提醒了我
现在什么心情？什么感觉都不是，平平静静 March, 2007 How To Be A Better Couple
10 steps to enjoying each otehr better
1.Be Realistic About Each Other
Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.
2.Always talk thing out
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
3.Do Stuff together
Make an effort to do t hings together. Do some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!
4.Meet Each Other Halfway
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock" print, u shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy... There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway.
5.Show Your love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have been together for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes => ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.
6.Respect Each Other
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.
7.Bury The Past
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b'cos u are gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.
8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u're gonna go through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finall y killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it. 9.Keep your commitments To Each Other
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur partner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's really terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises u can't keep. If ur partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to u, u may jus lose him/her.
10.Be Honest
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When u're hurt, say so, and when u're angry, tell him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If u can't be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with? æ Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probably isn't worth it! March, 2007 *不爽#很不爽* @!#$#!@$%@#$#心裡只想找人罵﹐昨晚睡眠不足﹐早上又七早八早起身﹐真的很XXX的嫌﹐最近是怎樣了?什麼都那麼不順
早起也沒什麼﹐問題是做莫還給我來個停電?!是不是人家說的"人到衰運硬是衰"?
後來和朋友出街耍兩下﹐回到家就只是找架吵而已﹐睡不到五小時﹐四小時都不知道有沒有﹐回到家是很累了﹐可是自己皮癢愛打電話
結果做我肚爛你也不爽﹐一件小事而已每次都能因為這樣吵不休﹐幾想堵人下!!做我心情不好而已!
zzzz怨不得誰﹐是我自己太習慣你的存在了﹐久了就習慣了﹐要是像以前的冷漠無情點﹐是不是就不會有事沒事吵兩下?
現在發現自己﹐越來越不像我自己了﹐真的好不像我自己﹐一次傷害一次警告﹐還學不會嗎!?真是蠢斃了我,也很傻!
一腳踩進去了...哈哈哈,突然想起他對我說的話﹐"我不會是你的最後﹐你的最後也不會是我﹐而我只適合孤獨一個人"
很耳熟對不?很諷刺的是你也曾說著同樣的話﹐只是你不覺得自己是該一個人的
心酸酸﹐可是卻又不懂為什麼﹐也不懂是為了什麼﹐只是很莫名的酸酸
  March, 2007 *無趣#緣份*很無趣..玩什麼似乎都提不起什麼興致﹐也不是說完全啦﹐只是好像你在玩這個﹐可是心裡想著別的﹐"怪腳"吼
唉﹐早上醒來﹐看著昨晚download一半半的游戲,fail jor -.- 真嫌
關了電腦﹐下樓繼續打我的ps2(王國之心)kingdom hearts II,打著游戲﹐心裡卻想著玩電腦﹐幾嫌都不知道
可是上來房間又想下去了﹐最後還是選擇打ps2,結果很‘肚爛’ 的是 打完boss,給我卡住了﹐意思是我得再打過=.=
一玩就是玩上幾個鐘﹐最後朋友來call叫上線﹐才停下﹐可是玩整天有點不知道自己在玩什麼﹐就只是在打著游戲
冰在線﹐和他傾幾句﹐他閃人去搞他的電腦東西﹐我就被只豬騙到GB給欺負咯﹐幾可憐下
唉唉﹐整天就醬莫明其妙的過一天﹐很蠢叻..讀完書﹐日子就過的醬嫌..
有沒有人相信緣份的阿?
 有些人幾相信它﹐有些人一點都不相信
相信它的則什麼都信﹐不信的則信自己
信自己為了保護自己不受傷
相信它只是為了讓自己認為自己是對的﹐當錯誤時﹐是不是就不信了?
緣份誰知道...尋尋覓覓到最後會是誰..
March, 2007 *悶 # 煩 # 嫌*開什麼玩笑﹐睡覺睡多幾個鐘﹐也給我在那邊吵不休!真想吊人!
一起身沒有撥著熟悉的號碼﹐真意外﹐只是傻傻的坐在電腦面前..
做著什麼? 上網﹐冰在線﹐就和他聊幾句﹐聊著聊著﹐就忘 了時間
可是卻不停的看著自己的手機﹐總希望它突然間響﹐也在想會是誰打給我?
我又希望會是誰? 啊哈哈哈 怪人一個 XD 我是!可是事實總是勝于雄辯﹐手機一整天都沒響..
打打幾下游戲﹐嫌了﹐下樓吃午飯﹐被念個不停﹐煩了﹐晚上外出宴會吃飯﹐悶了
上forum玩兩下﹐覺得無趣﹐搞什麼今天!什麼都像不順不順是的..
複雜的心情又給我來這套﹐來月都沒醬'肚爛'
 一顆心 可以容下多少個人﹐你們自認為是重要的?
一顆心可以愛著多少個人﹐你們自認為值得愛的?
有誰能告訴我?
結果還是沒答案..
March, 2007 *習慣*似乎是漸漸的習慣他的存在了﹐從一開始的冷漠到現在每次睡醒﹐
習慣性的拿起手機﹐撥著熟悉的號碼﹐從何時開始﹐我為他而改變了?
一開始的冷漠無情﹐如今竟變成一整天 滿腦子都是他的影子﹐為什麼?!
以前絕不會因為他而擾亂我自個兒的情緒﹐思考﹐
可是現在卻容易因為他一點小事就亂了
當我發現時﹐這樣的習慣﹐讓我很不習慣阿~~
就像朋友說的﹐久了就一定會習慣..
我不信這套﹐在我還沒習慣前
現在我信了...唉..
March, 2007 *雨天*阿~~~~~ 很嫌啊!!下雨了﹐我不喜歡下雨天的感覺﹐你喜歡嗎?很多人喜歡雨天因為好睡﹐雨天帶給我難過的感覺﹐一直都是﹐天空下著雨如同在哭泣﹐看著下雨天也如同我在哭泣﹐在那裡..你過的好嗎?還是一樣的生活方式嗎?雨天...總是能一次又一次的讓我憂傷
想知道你過的好嗎﹐可是我卻做不到,也不能做到,我不恨也不怪﹐因為我知道你不屬於我
當一個人時﹐時間總是能把我帶回過去﹐重複著一樣的開心一樣的傷心一樣的絕望
夜裡﹐一個人﹐在哭泣嗎?不是...
一個人在發呆﹐想著自己..
寂寞嗎?孤獨嗎?傷心嗎?不是..
當我想起你時﹐另一個人總是適時的來電...適時的讓我再度忘了你
意味著什麼呢?他取代了你的存在和價值嗎?
距離一直是你的威脅﹐也是你害怕的事﹐最後放棄了
我..還是一個人嗎?
誰會陪我走到最後?
那晚﹐我發現到原來我在哭...
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